{"id":263039,"date":"2025-03-27T20:01:36","date_gmt":"2025-03-27T19:01:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev.cfonetwerk.nl\/candor-is-honesty-with-respect-not-hammering-a-point-not-staying-silent-but-saying-what-needs-to-be-said-even-when-it-creates-friction\/"},"modified":"2026-05-15T16:57:11","modified_gmt":"2026-05-15T14:57:11","slug":"candor-is-honesty-with-respect-not-hammering-a-point-not-staying-silent-but-saying-what-needs-to-be-said-even-when-it-creates-friction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dev.cfonetwerk.nl\/en\/candor-is-honesty-with-respect-not-hammering-a-point-not-staying-silent-but-saying-what-needs-to-be-said-even-when-it-creates-friction\/","title":{"rendered":"Candor is honesty with respect. Not hammering a point. Not staying silent. But saying what needs to be said \u2014 even when it creates friction."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.27.4&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;4px|||||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"ember52\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__paragraph\"><strong>Candor: naming the elephant in the room \u2014 without becoming one yourself<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><\/p>\n<p id=\"ember53\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__paragraph\">Everyone talks about psychological safety. But in my view, Dutch business is still missing something more fundamental: <strong>candor<\/strong>. Genuine openness. The willingness to say things that have not yet been said out loud. Yes, even when they are uncomfortable.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p id=\"ember54\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__paragraph\"><strong>Candor means naming the elephant in the room \u2014 without becoming the elephant yourself.<\/strong> Not hammering your point home, not shouting others down, but speaking clearly, with respect, without censoring yourself.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p id=\"ember55\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__paragraph\">As an interim CFO, I regularly find myself in situations where difficult topics are being sidestepped. Sometimes I notice that crucial information is being deliberately omitted or withheld. For me, these are always signals. Not red cards, but firm yellows. Not because I need to know everything, but because it says something about the culture. When communication is not open, fog sets in. And in the fog, mistakes happen.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p id=\"ember56\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__paragraph\">Jack Welch, former CEO of GE, was a vocal advocate of candor. In his words: <strong>\u201cThe middle 70 percent need to be coached, the top 20 percent should be rewarded, and the bottom 10 percent need to go.\u201d<\/strong> A quote that fitted its American context, but one that tends to provoke resistance in the Netherlands. We tend to remember above all that he wanted to let go of the &#8216;bottom 10%&#8217; every single year. In a tight labour market, that sounds like heresy. And yet, in rejecting that, we risk throwing the baby out with the bathwater \u2014 because his case for radical openness, particularly around feedback and performance, is more relevant today than ever.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p id=\"ember57\" class=\"ember-view reader-text-block__paragraph\">Candor is not the same as being tough. 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